Social disconnection is antithetical to progressive development, healthy association depends your level of reasoning and expose you to different kinds of experience that will impact you to a higher degree. Confining only to enclave of your thoughts and actions keep you on a fruitless voyage of no discovery, such isolation will fuel loneliness, battling with yourself without any positive results to come up with. It is easier for people who disconnect themselves socially to fall into depression or suffer mental health issues, it creates a void that leave your life chasing shadows as opposed to substance.

In as much as people disconnect themselves socially, the reason will sprang up from the level of closeness they feel with loved ones and how they confide in them with private matters, or whether they have been breach of trust. Distancing yourself from loved ones and friends, and completely slam the door for whatever reason may be better solved and maintain your space, than starkly disengaged yourself from associating. It creates a burden that you have to carry along with you, than providing you with free mind to navigate through that space.

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Those who completely slam door of socialisation between family and friends are in different terrain with those, who constantly visit and check on one another  it creates that special space of belongingness and togetherness, it is social engineer for growth and provides valuable experience. A phone conversation with loved one after long day, can brighten the atmosphere and give it a different aura, it can serve as a source of strength and motivation to already jaded family member or friend, then it becomes another lifeline for survival, that’s what social disconnection can’t solve.

Social disconnection can come the other way, when it has to do with self-confident, someone who feel they are not good enough to belong or talk in a certain circle, or they lack the requisite standard to be accepted. It is about self-evaluation you have to start somewhere, talk to people who can relate with you, you don’t necessarily need to jump to that desired circle, you have to trust the process of getting yourself there, it might be a circle that you have to earn something before you can belong, if it is such importance and significance to your growth as a person and career wise.

It is a circle of networking, when you visit a family member or friend, they tend to benefit from it, when they are joined by other family members or friends, sharing experience in that circle may be something someone among them needed and may end up finding a companion. Disconnecting yourself socially create mental servitude, it pins you into that zone where you can only reason within, disconnecting yourself from people who are emotional attached to you, is suicidal but when this healthy association is bred and nurtured, it comes a place you run to not only when things are chaotic but also a cheering moment.

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