You can’t move forward without figuring out yourself and what you are going to do to bring out your light in the world and let it shine. You need strong opinion about who you are and where you are heading in life, don’t let people’s opinions detect your life, you need to be opinionated and be clear reaching out to figure yourself out, when you give room for people’s opinions it plays out of self-love, to give space for opinions of others will lead you astray, trying to do something you never loved and fit into the kind of society that never meant for you.

Figure out your own self out, go deeper than the surface, that will broaden your scope about the vision you have for yourself. Self-love determines the way you feel about everything that revolves around you, it needs utmost care don’t pay less attention to the least things within, to figure yourself out is to give yourself the vision to shine your light in the world, the way it goes to influence lives of many, is the benchmark for its impacts. With what you do, it shades light into lives of others, especially when it plays out of selflove they will be able to reintegrate and find themselves.

Finding stability in relationship and career

Keep pushing up to open up the doors, be resilient and let your passion wake you up. In this world you need more perspective to keep it going, you can’t be complacent when you lean towards your own self without continuing to widen your scope, you will be leapfrogged by obstacles you need to step up to challenge and fight a good one. Your self-affirmation will drive you further to figuring out yourself, you have to show up every day not just once you need to be consistent with this struggle, don’t let it slip away give every ounce of you, this journey can be rocky and wild, and you have to eat. 

You have to be yourself and figure out what works for you, and believe in it. A lot of these external influence which turn out to be a huge blow are burn out from people trying to fit in and socialize. You can’t live in a setting that is not meant and design for your being, don’t embrace the pressure of people persuading you to match their kind of living. Trying to fit in and do what other people are doing surface where there is no self-love and priority to shine your own light in the world, you have to figure out your own self and inspire.