You live in a society that emphasized so much on the way you look, somewhat it has gain mainstream as a dominant topic to posses high self confidence and give self esteem, you feel better when people talk about how you look and the way you’re in a positive way, it overshadowed all the doubts.
Confidence is within and outside, and you need to achieve the both to have full coverage of it. Appearance is a key to most things you are going to do, even though you have quality contents to give, the first impression is how do you look or appear.
Social media has bring both the positive and negative to your door steps, where users body shamed and bully people based on the way they look and neglect the most important as aspects, what they want to give out to the society, it somehow knock them down.
It becomes a serious case when people go into depression because of the way they look, from work place or public places they get dejected in a manner in which people talk to them, they feel they have been belittled and subjected to zero in a place where they should be confident.
Sometimes it reached to the extreme, words they say is powerful, what you say to the other might lead to their grave or emotionally scarred for life, you don’t necessary have to shoot someone before you kill, some words have a powerful venom that can pierce and shatter people.
The society of aesthetics have given so much pressure on the way you look, driving the society on another voyage, an attractive lady is more likely to get job notwithstanding her incapacity than a lady who is capacitated but totally unattractive, so it creates a different world for these two set of people.
In entertainment they are more likely to get the limelight, somehow everything was based on your look, the other set of people feel unaccommodated in so many areas because they didn’t satisfy or overcome the requirements and pressure the society puts on people.
Many embark on self-discovery, to discover themselves in a best possible way and fix in to the societal pressure. Aesthetics surgery become a saviour to liberate and break those barriers, medical practitioners were able to do different kinds of surgeries to make them look good.
And it brings so many back to life, they were able to do things people say they didn’t have, and now they become more confident than ever, their new found look has given them the temerity to flourish regardless, and they tend to aspire with it.
Looks play major role in the society, but people should be able to understand that you’re beautiful the way you’re, sometimes societal pressure doesn’t worth it, it come and go. Be beautiful in your own space, people are beautiful depending on the definition they give to beauty, what matters are your inspiration to the society.
