How to Speak Through People’s Souls in a Heated Conversation

Tone and mood in which you convey your messages are the most important elements of conversation they are the carriers of this message, to be able to pass the message accurately you will need to understand the state of mind of the person you wish for the message to have effect on them, that’s how you speak through their souls and inspire change. You grow beyond your scope when you involve yourself in such conversation, it informs and shape your mindset on how differently people understand topics of various kind. When you have  yes-men in the room it will leave you without deeper knowledge of the situation, but upon certain constructive disagreements it will broaden the horizon and further exposes you to bigger picture.

To learn from any disagreements or you want certain group to learn from that arguments you would need to speak through their souls despite the heated arguments, that’s the proper approach to make the best out of the circumstances, each conversation started, has a destination point or its driving point. Divergent opinions have emerged on world’s view concerning political, social and economic stance, and many have become stubborn with their ideas, but the best possible way to present a narrative is through personal experience, in as much as it is not conclusive but such practical disposition is persuasive enough to influence someone stance and give room for rethink.

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People often conceal their personal experience about material issue on ground, this is because they are afraid to be judged or rather wait and see how the argument panned out, so that they can open up. For such conversation to strengthen and create judgement-free zone environment, out of leniency in the process, leaning to their views before exposing it to wider elements and why it is not sustainable in such atmosphere, this is effortless route to honest conversations. It doesn’t stop at that while exposing sustainability of their disagreements, you can still invite them to talk more on how their views will stand the test of time. After that it will give room for informed opinions and wider understanding of the scope of the argument.

Through such conversation people educate themselves on certain aspects of people’s culture that influence their understanding of the contemporary issues. Information has become a veritable tool more than it has ever become now, conversation should be open minded without extremely holding a view to the point that you see anyone that holds contrary view as an enemy. Proper decorum is required throughout in the course of the conversation, you don’t need to vigorously defend a public figure, and sharing first hand experience in community with other people will add important knowledge in your understanding of world view on different political, social economic stance.