Forgiveness is the path way to a new life, that’s the last shot you need to start all over again to get yourself through that rain. You have been betrayed by the people you place all your trust in, and you’re finding it difficult to forgive them, you felt that the level of damage caused is enormous that it can never be forgiven, sometimes it is not the level of damage melted on you, but what you need to let go, to start new a life in a positive note without necessarily carrying the wounds of past relationships. When you overburden yourself with the thoughts and keen for revenge, it denies you the opportunity to look at yourself in the mirror, limiting your chances of picking the pieces of your broken self and start forging ahead.
You need to start the process of moving on with your life and it starts with art of forgiveness, it is encompassing, it is not something you do once and let go, you need to teach your mind how to get rid of those hurtful experiences that are occupying your thoughts, and it becomes overreaching when it pushes you for revenge. Focus on your career, prioritize everything that makes you happy, with that little distractions you will be able to have a life to live. When you make a step to your new life, the vision will become clearer, the desire for revenge will gradually die down, the shift in focus will be about yourself. It is one of those punches that life throws at you, you need to learn how to strategize to survive the punches.
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Life is not always going to be bed of roses and not like people open arms for hurtful experiences, but these experiences are very pivotal for growth in life, they are practical experiences in life that shapes your approach to life. When you conquer your problems in life, it is like waste, you throw it in the bin and dispose them off. But, when you allow the waste to litter everywhere it becomes plagues making it hard to get rid of easily. Forgiveness places you on a different point of view immediately you conceive it, a point where you make peace with yourself going forward and you don’t have to be traumatised remembering it, it draws a meeting point between the hurtful experiences and your new life, they can easily coexist.
When you go through that experiences in life that you thought you would never survive it, and you were able to keep your head above water, it is an opportunity to create new opportunities that fit in with your purpose in life. You have passed through that stage of forgiveness, what comes next is a new life, a chance to make beautiful memories again. Life is a continuous process, you cannot fold under one hurtful experience, rather you learn to live off it. There are still myriads of chances to reach the height you had always wanted to reach in your career, you can still do it with your personal growth, it doesn’t stop at anything there is no ceiling for improvement, you can still live that beautiful life and create memories.
