RELATIONSHIPS

Trends and Technological Shift Orchestrating change in Relationships

Trends and technological shift have changed approach to relationships, the traditional ideas of what couples in marriages are expected to do have evolved with all these trends. With the stance it is taking, it is getting difficult everyday to find long tern partner, it seems that the idea has completely lost its way, and can’t fit into the current trends and technological shift in the approach. People are unsure where to find love, how they navigate through this circle to achieve their desired goals, it doesn’t always materialize and it keeps running around circle without any desire to experience that adventure. To find a life partner in this crop of trends and technology have proven to be difficult,  for two people to agree to live together as lawfully wedded couple, it comes with variations, and then a meeting point.

Life partner is a decision that awaits everyone, arguably. To find a love now not only seem to be impossible but come with a lot of risks, you can have different dating apps on your phone, still it will end up being tragic or arranged love scam making it difficult to trust profile provided on the dating app. Modern day relationships come with a lot of differences a big shift from traditional conception of marriage and relationship. Three individuals can have a sexual relationship with full consent, knowing that three parties involved are having carnal knowledge of each other, and they feel it is a practice that has co-evolved with needs of the people. While this may be acceptable in a particular clime in other climes it will be viewed as abominable act, far from acceptable norm, and this choice of relationship will definitely be a barrier, not everyone will like to be carved into polygamous relationship.

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It is drastic shift from the traditional conception of marriage. Before now, the conception of marriage involves child bearing, raising and guiding children, lessons and learning, and actively involve with farming and providing for the household. Now, trends and technological shift towards approach in relationship gave way for more information. People now yawn for companionship, compatibility, closure, co-parenting and perfect sex partner, people can now start discussion how great sex with partner was great or not. People in choosing life partner are looking at social class and level of intelligence, whether such partner can constructively contribute to the growth of the marriage socially, emotionally and financially.

Orchestrated by technology relationships have moved digital, individuals can start talking all through even months before they meet each other, conversation was great what remains is just physical date, but when they let the cat out of the bag, it comes with unsatisfactory expectations, there is organic process in relationship that makes dating app a fiction. People are thrilled with new opportunities dating apps can offer, like meeting new people and building relationship across continents, options here are limited often time it creates emotional loss. Due to certain barriers, it will be impossible for the parties to meet, virtual emotional feelings are not always interpreted to mean to start something serious than how physical emotions will be interpreted.

At the slightest provocation or arguments in marriage, couples start threatening to abandon the marriage, may be they think that the grass is greener on the other side. Feeling of being young and more palatable options for them to chose from, make them to go wild in as much people should not stay in toxic relationships, they can iron out differences. They can get rid of the vacuum in their relationships and encourage each other. People are out to live out their lives and show who they are to their partners, modern day couples are honest in that aspects, what it offers during dating stage is the compatibility, and it will become a lens through with the marriage will be projected.

Chukwuebuka Ogbu

Writer

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