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Surrendering Your Old Age For The Journey Of Love

Growing old with your soulmate in adventurous journey of love, is a pathway of surrendering your old age. When you are futuristic about your life, this is what plays out in your head, the language of love, fixing your life and planned aging with the one your heart yawns for, it couldn’t be better than this. Old age is a very delicate stage in life, people in all circumstances want quiet and happy retirement, they want to go through this process hand in hand with someone they can truly call their own and walk through this storm and triumphed. It is like special person in your life, who has defined all your fantasies you envisaged in a partner, ask you “come and growth old with me”, it is powerful statement it goes down into the deepest part of your heart and spark joy and moment of clarity.

The modern day crop of young people are struggling to find that special one they can grow old with, due to high rate of divorce, failed relationships and infidelity which have crippled this journey of love. They don’t believe in this journey again and have seen it as a mystery. The modern trend pursuit of happiness and self-centred approach which couples have adopted negates the very essence of surrendering your old age with the one you love. Most modern day relationships lack important elements that preserve and nurture journey of love, some people even leave everything open so that they can be free to do whatever they want, so far it make them happy.

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Not everyone is going to queue in and see things from your own perspective, you have to be in charge of your life, that’s how you will be able to find that special one you can embark journey of love with and grow old with, you have to set the standards and find reflection of yourself in your partner. Young people are overly carried away with the attention and fantasies they are enjoying, but when the lights are down, they began to mumble in words and fumble in walks. You can only attract what you want to become, if what you’re attracting are not pleasant enough or failed to match your standards, you need to look inwardly and make the assessment that’s how you evolve yourself.

Togetherness in mind and in heart are very essential towards the journey of love, at the beginning it can be all lovey-dovey but tempo is not always in a high level or maintain steady flow, most times what will keep the relationship going is friendship that snowball into strong bond of togetherness in mind and in heart, this moment provides with clarity you need in your relationship. Don’t focus on the things that mean nothing building your love life entails, you have to invest and stay committed throughout the process, it is this stage you have the general overview of life and immediately make plans to grow old with that special one and it can be proves to be a fulfilling journey of love.

A well-planned love life breeds happy family, children are loved and encouraged to be better in life, this tends to keep family stable, everyone is in good spirit and ready to help out whichever way they can. When you surrender your old age, for the sake of love, you tend to go all out to squeeze the best of out of this journey of love. When you have found your soulmate, the one you want to grow old with, it means defying the odds, it doesn’t come so easy, especially this modern times people misinterpret love  and less regard for it.

Chukwuebuka Ogbu

Writer

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