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Reciprocity of Connection Essential Element of Strong Relationships

Reciprocity of connection creates secured environment in relationships, ranging from different acts that overtime has become essential ingredients of the relationships that sprout its fluttering aura. It is like every day reaffirmation to strengthen the bond, it could be an act of regularly texting or checking up, gifts, reminding your partner that the dreams are possible, making sure they eat breakfast at home before going out for work, the list can go on. The key moment is the interpretation your partner gives to these connections and its responds to return the affection in more passionate way, and also receiver’s feelings when it is reciprocated. This breeds the connection and increase the lifespan of the relationships.

In every healthy relationship what partners desire is exclusivity. Everyone wants to have access to their spouse at the exclusion of any other person, when there is lack of presence and availability in relationship, it goes to the root of the relationship. Parties in relationships want to make sure before they give “all of me” they want to make sure there have seen signs that will lead them to such commitment, nobody wants to take less than what they have given. Reciprocity of connection brings sense of belongingness, what you don’t want to do is to be isolated in your relationship, it only brings desolate of mind, body and soul. It is going to take life out of you, such experience is not an easy one.

It is important for couples to know how to connect effectively and the best way to reciprocate one another’s quest for connection. Where couples are not connected, it can spread across the family and bring poor parents and children relationship, which is so important that it demands absolute care, nurture and teaching from the former to the latter. It is about that particular person you can literally talk about everything with; first to hear the bad news and first to hear the good news, it comes from reciprocity of connection. The level of comfort you find from their affection and affirmative words keep you running to them, and their spirit is at peace with yours; soul to soul.

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You can never get tired of talking to that particular person and everyday brings new perspective to strengthen the reciprocity of connection effortlessly. Creating invincibility around your relationship is one of the softest forms of love, it brings respect and admiration for couples. You have to pick everything carefully, your choice of words and tone in which you said it can make or mar reciprocity of connection, you need appropriate tools to convey your message. When connection is reciprocated it guarantees security, safety and trust in the relationship and it brings couples in the same page of their love adventure.

You can show affection to your spouse, but it is never enough if such spouse is never loved the way they want to be loved. Interpretation of your love by your spouse, is what passes the information and connection, it is not about how much efforts you have put to make your spouse happy, but how such efforts have been reciprocated to cure inaction in such spouse. All round connection for partners key elements in building strong relationships, it increases their daily productivity in nurturing their relationship, the team work transcend to all areas of their lives.

Chukwuebuka Ogbu

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