Children need stability of atmosphere to navigate through their upbringing progressively, unstable home attack children’s development and their ability to learn effectively. Couples should create an easy route for the children, especially when they are going tough moment in their marriage, avoid face off with their parents in front of them, to the extent that they began to ask what is going on. Divorce might be a love lost, but the products of the marriage, which are the children deserve to live like other children in a stable home, they don’t need to overly saturated with the process, due to the extent that one of the parties used them as a shield to protect certain interests.
Children are very sensitive, they pay attention whenever there is change of attitude from either of their parents. It is frustrating for them, they won’t be enjoying joint benefits due to them as a result of unstable home, their parents have fallen apart and their wellbeing have been affected too, almost in all cases they visibly show frustration. A kid that once drop off to school now follow school bus to go home, lively and chatty kid that has list of what happened in the school he will share with the parents, has become mute, due to unstable home which has affected his development, they struggled to adapt to the new format, perform badly in school, bullied by other children and completely isolated due to self-esteem which has been bruised by the circumstances.
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Parents should strive to maintain stable atmosphere at home and learn to solve their problems without dragging children into it. Children’s lives are very delicate, at any point during their developmental stage in life, unstable home will bring poor upbringing that touched moral, ethics and cultured behaviour needed to navigate to the next stage of their lives. Parents should also learn to separate workplace situation from family, because the two hardly coexistence but they can be co-managed to achieve a desired balance needed to flourish. It is a continuous process to get to that level, this is because children are important not just for the family, but great asset to the society, when the energy is channelled in the right direction.
In every family situation children’s welfare should be prioritized to enable them to continue to live and develop, children in unstable home in most cases turned out to be the victim of the circumstances, this is because the everyday guidance needed for children’s development was found wanting, they do what they want, live in company of friends and see life through that moment. Before they could realize the situation it has eaten deep and almost late to change the situation. Children are not only the products of families, their interactions with wider society need to be guided and cultured to align with acceptable conducts and ethics to live in community of others.
