How To Spice Up Parents And Children Relationships

Family is a great bond that unite one another, it is primarily made up of father, mother and children. Family often had quarrells but they always have one another’s back, things might not work as they planned, that didn’t stop them from and continue to fight for the family’s prosperity, to make things work better there is every need to have a healthy relationship amongst the members of the family.

Children is hard to raise, it seems like societal values are going down everyday, and the community aren’t helping, children find attachment more with their peers more than their parents, due to work balance they made it hard to spend more time with them.

Parents should know that their children are the utmost priority of theirs, if you leave your children in the hands of strangers to take care of them, you might end up losing the remaining bond you share with them, and the reverse becomes the case, they will see you as a stranger, and their nanny becomes the new mother.

You can’t give your work the whole energy, and forget your children, learn to balance your time and take full control of your children, that’s how you get to know what is happening in their lives and proofer solutions when they are in dilemma of making decisions.

Taking children to mall or to cinema to see movies are not the ultimate way to spice up the bond between parents and children, you have the whole space at home, do all these things at home and go out often, make them feel comfortable at their space, help them with their books, always listen to what they have to say and don’t get too harsh with them, you reserve the right to punish them, when they err but don’t get too far in doing that, this saying goes like this ‘ you beat a child with your right hand and use your left hand to hug him’.

Recently they have been this issues of work and childcare, finding work balance, sometimes companies aren’t making it easy for their workers, they aggravate the whole issue, leaving parents with almost no option, absolutely clueless.

• Children: The end product of love

It is no lie that parents do most of these things to give their children a good life, to be able to meet up with the basic expenses in the family, and take care of their needs, but it hard to explain this to children, when all they want is your physical presence always.

Small time together can make up for the loss times, if you know how to connect with your children, that’s why it is absolutely important as parents to be hundred percent involve in your children’s lives.

No matter how away or distance you’re to your children, they will always be glad to spend time with you every time you’re around, and every time you’re with your family ought to be expensive and quality, explore the moments and get more closer with them.

It is important to get more attach to what is happening in their their lives, than taking them out for shopping, this is their deep secrets, allow them to always lean on you when they are passing tough times in school, children often fall the victims of bullying at school, always be there for them, and make the relationship stronger.