RELATIONSHIPS

Growing Divorce: The Act Of Masterly In Your Relationship

The intensifying crashes in many marriages have left the society with uncontrollably aligning with things that are antithetical with progressive growth of mankind, marriages are ending very early with divorce, even long term marriages are following that route, people are realizing that they have spent most of the years living with the wrong partner. When the foundations are not strong, everything else is bound to collapse that is the symbolism for describing the unscrupulous trend of bitter and unhealthy growing divorce ravaging the society, and the way it is impacting the society directly or indirectly, the way to boycott it, is being the masterly of your relationship.

To go through that phase in life, you need to discover yourself and your purpose in life, that’s how you began to advance to the stage, it is going to be the most productive stage of your life in terms of age, energy and career wise, depending on what you make from it. You have to look at your level of social interactions and behaviours, and what sought of subjects’ interest and particularly areas you pick interest in life, your reaction to issue of human rights and degrading treatments occasioned on others, your level of sympathy and empathy. This is all around collation of yourself to be able to see that picture on your prospective partner, from there you can establish a strong foundation.

Going for what you want in life and being happy comes with greatest feelings, you don’t need to settle for less, your situation should not dictate your life, you have to take over and steer the wheel, that’s when you are in charge. Growing divorce is creating mental and moral instability not only on the kids but also on the divorcees themselves. You have to know yourself and your partner, it is not going to be all rosy throughout, you have to work together as a partner and a team to wither away the storm, adversity test the stronghold of matrimonial institutions, and you have to be ready for such moment and stay prepared.

You may also like these:

The future is in your hands, it is yours to take if you’re willing to have it. You don’t need to rush, you need a critical assessment of what you’re embarking on, whether the prospective partner match your imaginary partner you have created within you, it doesn’t stop there even when you are engaged or at the stage of courtship, marriage courses are paramount, that’s how you build a partner and together it will enable both to understand the sacrosanctity of the institution they are embarking, without being quick to desecrate it.

Gen Z, are triggered with all the social media stunts without looking inwardly to understand what they truly need in life and the way they can achieve that amid growing divorce in the society, how they tend to build and nurture their homes as prospective partners. Even older generations with more experience tend to live far from reality, and it becomes a disturbing issue in the society. It is moment of clarity to promote healthy society through act of masterly in your relationship and how to keep on igniting the love and making sure you fill up where there are room for improvements.

Melinda Gates opens up about her divorce with Bill Gates, she said “I couldn’t trust what we had”, this is not about material things, it is natural connection and affection to breathe life into your relationship, this is what is going to stand the test of time, you can’t neglect these core ingredients; they promote long term love and panacea to divorce. Prime Minister of Canada, Justin Trudeau has recently separated from his wife, the emergence of high profile divorce could be linked to balance between personal life and being a public figure, that continuous void was enough to strain a marriage of almost twenty years.

You can draw a line of where you want to see yourself in the years coming, making away with growing divorce in the society or join it. You need that love security to guarantee your stability, with that choice of partner you can curb domestic violence, loneliness, cheating and lies which are always direct invitation of divorce. And promote peace and harmony, and finding time in between crazy work schedules to spend time together, reaffirming and professing love to your partner every time you have the opportunity to do that, with that you can become masterly of your relationship.   

Chukwuebuka Ogbu

Writer

Recent Posts

Mmeso Inspires: Be Mine (Episode 3)

EPISODE 3 "Ijeoma, you won't cease to amaze me. So, Ken returned from the city…

2 days ago

How Music has Continued to Talk to our Soul

Music resonates with different experiences people have encountered in life, it is also the borderline…

3 days ago

Mmeso Inspires: Be Mine (EPISODE 2)

EPISODE 2 He came very close so that I could hear the skipping of his…

6 days ago

Mmeso Inspires: Be Mine

EPISODE 1 I noticed his gaze was fixed on me, It was intense, because, I…

1 week ago

A Behavioural Science of Human Relations with others

Healthy human relations with others creates progressive atmosphere of peaceful coexistence and anticipate positives in…

1 week ago

Mmeso Inspires: Chasing Shadows

All these while she had believed to have truly fallen in love, not knowing she…

1 week ago