Life is unstable it sways as life advances, nothing is fixed everything is prone to change, and learning new things, when you’re leaving comfortably you hardly know what other world look like, and even what new challenges may bring, comfort zone is deceiving, it will make you think that, this is where everything resides.
When you’re a child, nobody borders you with any responsibility whatsoever, other than good conduct and guidance, you see life from your own perspective and you think that is all, things began to change, you worry about making good grades and coming out successful in your examinations.
When you start to observe your environment, things around it and the way you are expected to react, then comes another challenge but still in the comfort zone, you haven’t leave that shell, now you start learning new things which is far from what they teach in school.
You’re made to understand to uphold the values of your family and keeping good friends, because these people are going to impact your life one way or the other, and often influence your decision, that’s why you should have refined friends who are going to take you to next level in life.
When you step outside of your comfort zone, it will be like you have not been seeing something, you are denied of technicality of life, so many challenges, defeats, setbacks, meltdown and broken heart, will come but your approach to life will determine the outcome of your fate and what future holds.
You need to understand that life is unfair, and will continue to be unfair and had never been fair, it is like everyday battle that resides with what is right and wrong, no one can literally tell what is right and wrong, that’s the judgement of the conscience, to be at peace with your inner self.
When you’re done with school so many things awaits you outside, school don’t teach you about friendship, relationship with others, this is what you learn on your own, but how do you do that? A gradual step and self discovery, the real world is different from what they teach at school, that’s why most people encounter difficulties after school.
Real world is hard, when you step outside your shield, to embrace hardship, challenges, be a better human being and fight for success, then you have taken up the challenge to compete and fight for opportunities, it is going to be a hell in a cell, even people who you think they love you, will be nowhere to be found, and you will be left alone in the jungle, the battleground which holds your future.
Nothing is guaranteed, it is when you step outside and leave your comfort zone, you will see what life is all about, not even the life you have now is guaranteed, you have to live every single day like it is your last day, that’s best approach you can have, the fighter’s mentality.
When you leave your comfort zone, you will be faced with full reality of life, it will not be the same things you see when you’re stuck in your comfortability, life will be viewed differently, then comes maturity, responsibility and ownership.
